My Father-in-Law Has Throat Cancer


How do we ensure a healthy future for our children?

How do we ensure a healthy future for our children?

In America savvy marketers have effectively duped us into believing that convenience in the Holy Grail: fast food, paper plates, quick-drying high-tech fabric, take-and-bake pizza.

We eat our meals out of cans or boxes or plastic bags; we put diapers made of wood pulp and petroleum-based super absorbent polymers on our babies, and we use our cars to drive half a mile away.

The happy woman in the TV commercial spraying toxic chemicals to get stains out of a collar shirt has no wrinkles on her face. The family piling into the carbon-dioxide-spewing gas-guzzling SUV in the magazine ad does not bicker.

If you believe the status quo, canned carbonated soda pop and hormone-laden hamburgers with ketchup (which is a vegetable) are the foods of choice that lead to happiness.

But then you realize you’ve been duped: your friend’s toddler drinks Drano and is disfigured for the rest of his life; your neighbor’s son gets leukemia; a pedestrian in town is struck dead in a crosswalk by a driver too impatient to wait; and your father-in-law is diagnosed–the day before yesterday–with throat cancer.

Happiness doesn’t come with plastic packaging.

There is nothing we can buy to fix our lives.

There is no money to be made from clean air, exercise, unassisted birth, another mom’s hand-me-down cloth diapers, freshly picked green beans off the vine in your yard, vaccine freedom, intimate friendships, honest conversations, small kindnesses, or walking to school.

I don’t want the polar bears to go extinct. I don’t want the baby albatross to wash ashore dead with their bellies full of plastic, I don’t want my children to grow up allergic and diseased.

I don’t want my father-in-law to die of cancer.

But I do want you to come with me. Let’s fix what’s broken. Together.

Photo by Christopher Briscoe.

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6 thoughts on “My Father-in-Law Has Throat Cancer”

  1. I’m so sorry to hear the news. I wish he didn’t have throat cancer, either. And I wish all of the other things, too. With courage and energy, maybe we can leave this world a better place.
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  2. I’m so sorry, Jennifer. I hate cancer, I hate suffering, and I hate having a front-row seat for the two of them together. I watched my sister-in-law die of leukemia this morning, and then I held her 12-year-old daughter as she sobbed and shook. It was overwhelming. I’m praying for a better, more grace-filled outcome for your FIL, and peace for your family.

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