Alternatives To Punishment  

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• Use positive reinforcement.
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• Create a positive environment.
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• Say yes as much as possible.
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• Save no for the important things.
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• Use natural consequences.
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• Use logical consequences.
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• Use restitution.
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• Leave it up to your child.
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• Compromise.
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• State your expectations, and get out of the way.
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• Give specific instructions.
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• Give a reason.
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• Offer help.
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• Give a choice.
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• Redirect your child.
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• Remove your child.
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• Make positive statements.
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• Give in occasionally.
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• Give your child time to agree.
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• Simply insist.
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• Make rules.
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• Ignore some behavior.
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• Avoid nagging and threats.
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• Distract your child.
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• Use humor.
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• Make it a game.
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• Be willing to admit your mistakes.
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• Stop and think before you act.
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• Don't make a big fuss over little things.
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• Stick to routines.
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• Don't hurry your children too much.
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• Get to the root of the problem.
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• Correct one behavior at a time.
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• Give yourselves time.
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• Use the golden rule.
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• Model appropriate behavior.
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• Think of your child as an equal.
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• Always keep your love for your child in mind.
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