What the Numbers Say: Birth, Breastfeeding, and Family in America
By Tiffaney Isaacson
Issue 111, March/April 2002
Note: All data are for the US , unless otherwise specified.
National health expenditures(1)
1998: $1,149.1 billion
1992: $ 838.5 billion
Percent of Gross National Product (GNP) spent on health care
Percent of GNP spent on health care by other countries, 1998
Total expenditure on health, per capita(2)
Country with next closest spending on health, per capita
Amount by which 1998 US healthcare expenditures per capita exceeded those of
Percent of women without health insurance in 1999(3)
14.6 (20.5 million women)
Percent of children without health insurance in 1999
13.9 (10 million children)
State with the highest percent of uninsured people in 1999
State with the lowest percent of uninsured people in 1999
Chance that an uninsured newborn will suffer an adverse hospital outcome, compared to privately insured newborns(4)
Infant mortality rate (deaths per 1,000 live births)(5)
Infant mortality ranking internationally(6)
Disability Adjusted Life Expectancy (DALE) (years expected to be lived in "full health")(7)
overall: 70 years
women: 72.6 years
US ranking: 24
Top three ranked countries:
Japan (overall 74.5 years)
Australia (overall 73.2 years)
France (overall 73.1 years)
Reduction in preterm births among high-risk patients who participated in a prenatal care program, including education, more frequent visits, and greater provider attention(8)
Among high-risk patients in the same prenatal care program, compared to nonparticipants
preterm birthrate: 7.4 vs. 9.1%
rate of LBW (low birthweight) babies born: 5.8 vs. 6.4%
preterm labor episodes successfully stopped: 11.4 vs. 6.6%
average preterm labor inpatient cost: $435 vs. $566
average newborn inpatient cost for infants: $3,146 vs. $5,342
Net savings per high-risk prenatal care patient in this program: $1,768
Result of a mother not receiving prenatal care:(9)
increased likelihood of a LBW delivery: 400%
increased likelihood of a preterm delivery: 700%
increased cost of long-term postnatal care for one neonate: $3,247
Cost of prenatal care for one mother: $702
For every dollar cut from prenatal care, amount of increase in the cost of long-term postnatal care: $4.63
*Total healthcare cost savings obtainable by providing prenatal care to all high-risk patients
$62 million per year
Number of LBW babies born annually(10)
Proportion of infants who did not survive the first year who were: (1997 statistics)(11)
very LBW (1500 grams or less): 51%
moderately LBW (1,500 to 2,499 grams): 14%
Number of infant deaths (under 1 year) attributed to disorders relating to short gestation and unspecified low birthweight(12)
4,101 (14.5% of total deaths, number two cause of death among this age group)
Number of neonatal deaths (under 28 days) attributed to disorders relating to short gestation and unspecified low birthweight
4,050 (21.4% of total deaths, number two cause of death among this age group)
Average cost of first year of medical care for a surviving infant, by birthweight(13)
under 750 grams: $273,900
750-999 grams: $138,800
1000-1249 grams: $75,100
1250-1499 grams: $58,000
Cost savings available in the first year of care from increasing birthweight of a LBW infant
by 250 grams: $12-$16,000
by 500 grams: $28,000
Cost savings for an infant of normal rather than LBW
$59,700 over the first year of care
Percent of women who have(14)
intensive prenatal care: 31
adequate prenatal care: 43.3
intermediate prenatal care: 13.8
inadequate prenatal care: 11.9
Percent of birth-related neurologic handicaps associated with preterm birth(15)
Percent of handicapping conditions associated with preterm birth
Medical costs of birth defects in the US(16)
Average differences in standardized cognitive score for LBW compared with middle birthweight(17)
at age 8: .25 points lower
at age 11: .21 points lower
at age 15: .24 points lower
*Healthcare cost savings obtainable from reducing LBW deliveries by providing prenatal care
$167 million per year
Percent of US births attended principally by midwives(18)
Percent of New Zealand births attended principally by midwives
Cesarean section rate for certified nurse-midwives (CNM) who attended hospital births(19)
Overall US cesarean rate for the same period
Vaginal Birth after Cesarean (VBAC) rate with CNMs
Overall US VBAC rate for the same period
Percent of states in which the practice of nurse-midwifery is expressly permitted by legislation
Percent of CNM practices that have excess capacity and could increase the number of midwife-attended births without adding new staff
Percent of CNM practices reporting that their practice of nurse-midwifery was restricted in some way
Services offered during labor to CNM patients vs. non-CNM patients
oral fluids: 94.5 vs. 55.8%
room to ambulate: 97.8 vs. 76.4%
friends, in addition to partner, in attendance: 98.8 vs. 85.6%
use of shower, bath, or hot tub: 93.5 vs. 53.9%
encouragement of alternative delivery positions: 96.9 vs. 27.9%
use of intermittent, rather than continuous, fetal monitoring: 94.4 vs. 34.9%
breastfeeding on demand 99.5 vs. 92.2%
When using a CNM, chances of experiencing(20)
infant death: 19% lower
neonatal mortality: 33% lower
low birthweight infant: 31% lower
Percent of female obstetricians who would choose an elective cesarean section rather than any other mode of delivery (for an uncomplicated, singleton pregnancy with a cephalic presentation and no obstetric problems)(21)
Percent of female midwives who would choose an elective cesarean section rather than any other mode of delivery (under the same circumstances)
Median duration of labor for women who received active management of labor with one-to-one care by a CNM(22)
Duration for those who did not
Median rate of maternal fever for women who received active management of labor with one-to-one care by a CNM
Rate for those who did not
For patients who received continuous support from a doula, compared to patients who did not, difference in(23)
duration of labor: 1.64 hours less
need for any analgesia: 36% less
need for any oxytocin: 71% less
need for the use of forceps: 57% less
need for cesarean section: 51% less
Among patients under the continuous care of a midwife (compared to intermittent care of both a midwife and a physician), difference in(24)
likelihood of being admitted antenatally to a hospital
likelihood of attending antenatal education programs
likelihood of infant requiring resuscitation
likelihood of receiving an episiotomy
Difference in cost of a midwife-attended delivery(25)
*Healthcare cost savings obtainable by utilizing midwifery care for 75% of pregnancies in the US
$85 billion per year
Electronic Fetal Monitoring
Most prevalent obstetric procedure was electronic fetal monitoring reported for nearly 3.3 million births, or 84% of all live births(26)
Association found between highest or lowest fetal heart rate recorded and risk of cerebral palsy(27)
False positive rate for multiple late decelerations in fetal heartbeat (indicating risk of cerebral palsy and often resulting in an emergency cesarean section)
Percent of children who did not have abnormalities on fetal monitoring and were diagnosed with cerebral palsy
Percent of children with abnormalities on fetal monitoring who were delivered via cesarean section and were still diagnosed with cerebral palsy
Percent of children with abnormalities on fetal monitoring, who were delivered via cesarean section, and were not diagnosed with cerebral palsy
Significant differences observed in one-minute apgar (evaluation of an infant's physical condition, on a 0 to 10 scale) scores below 4 among infants who received continuous electronic fetal monitoring(28)
Increase in risk of cesarean sections associated with the use of electronic fetal monitoring
Rate of cesarean delivery(29)
Cesarean rates by state
highest: Mississippi, 27%
lowest: Alaska, 14.7%
Cesarean rate recommended by WHO
Number of cesarean sections performed annually(30)
Risk of rehospitalization (within 60 days of delivery) among women who delivered by cesarean section for(31)
uterine infection: 100%
gallbladder disease: 50%
genitourinary tract conditions: 50%
cardiopulmonary and conditions: 140%
thromboembolic conditions: 150%
Overall postpartum rehospitalization risk among women with cesarean delivery
Cesarean section rate(32)
patients in a clinic staffed by CNMs
patients of private-practice obstetricians in the same community
Percent of women delivered by emergency cesarean section who viewed their delivery as a traumatic event(33)
Percent of women delivered by emergency cesarean section who had various forms of posttraumatic stress reactions one to two months postpartum
Among women who had delivered previously by cesarean section(34) risk of ectopic pregnancy
risk of an abruptio placentae (in multiparous patients)
risk of placenta previa
Percent of women found to have "white coat hypertension" (presence of hyptertension in a doctor's office and lower 24-hour, daytime, and nighttime blood pressure)(35)
Proportion of women diagnosed with white coat hypertension who delivered by cesarean section, compared to women in the normal group
45.2 vs. 12.4%
who received drug treatment for their condition
who received nifedipine for their condition (which may depress uterine ability to contract)
who received nifedipine for their condition and underwent cesarean sections because of unproductive labor due to uterine inertia
Difference in cost for cesarean compared to a vaginal delivery(36)
*Healthcare cost savings obtainable by reducing US cesarean rate to WHO recommended rate
$561 million per year
Average age of weaning worldwide in 1992 (see "Mothering Perinatal Healthcare Index," Mothering no. 68, Fall 1993)
WHO recommendation for age of weaning
Percent of breastfed infants in US(37)
at birth: 67
at 6 months: 31
at 12 months: 17
at 2 years: less than 5
Number of acute ear infections (under age 5)(38)
11 million (1996)
Among breastfed infants compared to formula-fed infants, incidence of(39)
otitis media: 19% lower
prolonged episodes of otitis media (more than ten days): 80% lower
diarrheal illness: 50% lower
duration of episodes of otitis media: 5.9 vs. 8.8 days
Rate of recurrent otitis media in infants exclusively breastfed(40)
for 6 months or more: 10%
for less than 4 months: 20.5%
Number of Americans under 45 with asthma(41)
10.5 million (1996)
Number of deaths from asthma in 1998
Increase in risk of asthma diagnosed by a doctor at age 6 when a child is introduced to milk other than breastmilk before 4 months of age(42)
Increase in risk of allergies at age 6 when a child is introduced to milk other than breastmilk before 4 months of age
Number of infant deaths (under 1 year) attributed to pneumonia and influenza(43)
441 (1.6% of total deaths, number ten cause of death in this age group)
Number of postneonatal deaths (28 days-one year) attributed to pneumonia and influenza
352 (3.7% of total deaths, number four cause of death in this age group)
Number of pneumonia cases annually (under age 5)(44)
Number of influenza cases annually (under age 5)
10.8 million (1996)
Percent of children with pneumonia and gastroenteritis in a community(45)
before a breastfeeding program was put in place: 32.2
after a breastfeeding program was put in place: 14.6
Increased likelihood that an infant who was not breastfed will be admitted to the hospital for pneumonia(46)
Among infants of mothers who did not participate in a breastfeeding intervention program compared to those who did(47)
risk of one or more gastrointestinal tract infections: 13.2 vs. 9.1%
risk of atopic eczema: 6.3 vs. 3.3%
Estimated probability of ever having respiratory illness in children(48)
who received breastmilk exclusively for at least 15 weeks: 17%
who received partial breastfeeding for at least 15 weeks: 31%
who were exclusively bottle-fed for at least 15 weeks: 32.2%
Incidence of obesity among children(49)
whose mothers exclusively breastfed for
2 months: 3.8%
3-5 months: 2.3%
6-12 months: 1.7%
12+ months: 0.8%
whose mothers never breastfed: 4.5%
Percent reduction in risk of breast cancer for women(50)
who have breastfed for at least two weeks: 13
who have breastfed for at least two years: 27
who began to breastfeed at age 20 or younger and continued for at least six months: 46
Percent reduction in breast cancer risk among parous (having borne one or more viable offspring) women who have never lactated(51)
Percent reduction in breast cancer risk among parous women who breastfed for 12-24 months
Cognitive function benefit when infants are breastfed(52)
Cognitive function benefit when low birthweight infants are breastfed
Increase in average school-leaving examination test scores among children who were breastfed for 8+ months(53)
.11 to .30 SD units higher than bottle-fed children
Increase in proportion of women breastfeeding exclusively for any period of time when a breastfeeding promotion program was put in place(54)
from 16.4 to 54.6%
For never-breastfed infants compared to infants breastfed for at least three months:(55)
additional office visits to healthcare provider (per 1,000 infants):
2,033 in the first year of life (for lower respiratory tract illness, otitis media, and gastrointestinal illness)
additional days of hospitalization: 212 in the first year of life (for the same ailments)
additional prescriptions: 609 in the first year of life (for the same ailments)
Average cost for one year of formula
Cost to managed healthcare system per never-breastfed infant
$331 to $475 in the first year of life
Average six-month cost for formula-fed infants participating in the Women, Infants, and Children Program (WIC), compared to breastfed infants, for(56)
food: $715.81 vs. $339.65
Medicaid pharmacy payments: $37.56 vs. $16.83
average program costs (WIC and Medicaid): $956 vs. $795
Net six-month savings for breastfed infants: $161
Infant participants in WIC nationwide: 1.9 million (in 1995)
Medicaid participants under age 5: 8.5 million(57)
*Healthcare cost savings obtainable by encouraging government compliance with WHO infant feeding guidelines
$1.1 billion per year
*Total healthcare cost savings obtainable by providing prenatal care, developing midwifery care, and encouraging breastfeeding
$608,661,000,000 per year
*Healthcare Cost Savings Calculations
Healthcare cost savings obtainable by providing prenatal care to all high-risk patients
$62 million per year
This figure is based on the National Vital Statistics data showing 3,941,553 births in 1998. Approximately 30% of all patients might be considered "high risk" for preterm delivery, and approximately 11.9% of the population does not receive adequate prenatal care. The program in question (see Note 7) reduced preterm delivery by 19%. The differences in price when a preterm birth is prevented were $131 for labor costs and $2,196 for newborn inpatient costs, a total of $2,327.
3,941,553 X 11.9% = 469,045 population without adequate prenatal care
469,045 X 30% = 140,713 high-risk patients without prenatal care
140,713 X 19% = 26,735 reduction in preterm birthrate
26,735 X $2,327 = $62,212,345 savings from reducing preterm birthrate
A second figure can be used as an alternative, based on evidence cited in Note 8. Vital Statistics information indicates that 11.9% of women received only intermediate or inadequate prenatal care. The referenced study found a cost of $702 per mother for prenatal care, and an increase in long-term costs of $3,247 per neonate when prenatal care is absent. Taking these costs into account with the percent of mothers who receive inadequate prenatal care, we find a total long-term cost of $1,193,716,980 for the lack of prenatal care.
3,941,553 (births in 1998) X 11.9% = 469,044 deliveries to women without adequate prenatal care
469,044 X $702 = $329,268,888 = cost of providing prenatal care
469,044 X $3,247 = $1,522,985,868 = cost of not providing prenatal care
$1,522,985,868 minus $329,268,888 = $1,193,716,980 = savings obtainable from providing prenatal care
Healthcare cost savings obtainable from reducing low-birthweight deliveries by providing prenatal care
$ 167 million per year
The same study referenced in Note 7 found a 0.6% decrease in preterm births when prenatal care was provided. Information from the source in Note 8 found a cost of $702 per mother for prenatal care. The information referenced in Note 10 found a savings of $59,700 over the first year of care for a normal-birthweight child compared to a child with LBW. Applying these numbers to the birthrate quoted from Vital Statistics provides a savings of $166,020,372
3,941,553 X 11.9 % = 469,045 = population without adequate prenatal care
469,045 X 0.6% = 2,814 = number of preterm births due to lack of prenatal care
2,814 X $702 = $1,975,428 = cost of providing prenatal care to these mothers
2,814 X $59,700 = $167,995,800 = cost of not reducing LBW via prenatal care
$167,995,800 minus $1,975,428 =$166,020,372 = savings obtainable from reducing incidence of LBW
Healthcare cost savings obtainable by utilizing midwifery care for 75% of pregnancies in the US
$85 billion per year
According to the interview referenced in Note 29, the average cost for a vaginal, uncomplicated delivery was $2,617. Taking into account the 12.2% savings obtainable when a midwife is used (see Note 20) and the 75% rate of midwifery use in Europe , the savings obtainable by using midwives at the same rate in the US is $85,069,140,303.
3,941,553 X 67.6% = 2,664,489 = increase in deliveries required to meet European rate
$2,617 X 12.2% = $31,927 = average savings with midwife
$31,927 X 2,664,489 = $85,069,140,303 = savings obtainable by bringing US rate up to European rate
Healthcare cost savings obtainable by reducing US cesarean rate to WHO recommended rate
$561 million per year
The difference between the current US cesarean rate of 21.2% and the WHO recommended rate of 12% can be applied to the US birthrate. The average price difference between a cesarean section and a vaginal birth (see Note 19) can then be applied to the difference to produce a total savings of $561,701,478.
3,941,553 X 9.2% = 362,622 = number of unnecessary cesareans
362,622 X $1,549 = $561,701,478 = savings obtainable by reducing cesarean rate
Healthcare cost savings obtainable from government compliance with WHO infant feeding guidelines
$1.1 billion per year
The average health costs to managed care for the first year of life are $403 (see Note 45). The percentage of children on formula at age 1 (see Note 29) is 83%, and the number of WIC participants is 8.5 million. The healthcare cost savings obtainable by increasing that rate to 100% is $2,843,165.
8,500,000 X 83% = 7,055,000 = number of additional children breastfed
7,055,000 X $403 = $2,843,165 = savings from increasing rate to 100%
The food costs to WIC for one year for formula-fed infants (see Note 46) were $752.32 per child. There were 1.9 million infant participants in WIC, and applying that number to the savings per child yields a total of $1,186,408,640.
1,900,000 X 83% = 1,577,000 = number of additional children to be breastfed
1,577,000 X $752.32 = $1,186,408,640 = savings by increasing rate to 100%
Combining these two totals yields a savings of $1,189,251,805.
$2,843,165 + $1,186,408,640 = $1,189,251,805.
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Tiffaney Isaacson lives in Gilbert , Arizona , and is the ever-so-proud mother of two children, Kyle (3) and Kayla (6 months). She is a writer specializing in women and children's issues as well as parenting and family topics.