Originally Posted by doubledutch
these are two very good reasons to go through the courts.
in the past, you said not to worry about it. now, your circumstances have changed, and your children (not you - your/his children) need his support. there is nothing wrong with saying, "don't worry about child support, just finish school," if/when you can support yourself and the kids. likewise, there is nothing wrong with saying, "okay, now it's time...