Ok y'all. Need a little "If I were you..." love.
BIL is getting married over Thanksgiving weekend, date chosen before this baby (dd#2) was conceived. The wedding is a big dang deal, Catholic cathedral downtown, very, very fancy reception-- it's all a mind-blowingly expensive production.
DH is best man, DD is flower girl, I am supposed to read scripture.
Wedding is in Indianapolis, 5 hours away. Plan is to drive. Will be gone Wed- Sun.
I will be "officially"...