I have to fly back for my shower, too, and this is exactly what happend to me. (eye roll) My sister-in-law was freaking out about grandma not being able to use Amazon. I'm like, why don't you help her with that? She's probably going to go in on a gift with another relative anyway! My store registry only has small, light things on it, so hopefully people take the hint. I plan on checking a large empty suitcase to fill on the way back.