I don't know how people keep a circ'ed baby clean because I suppose stuff gets into the urethra, yikes!
My boy never had an issue with poop in there, it's soooo easy. Actually, way easier than my girls - NO KIDDING!!
I hope you are able to keep your future sons intact, like the saying: "Two wrong don't make one right." There are MANY mamas like you in this forum, so you are welcome to stick around!