Wow, it's remarkable how professional you were and how unprofessional that physician was. To begin with, if you are anti-circ, dealing with this kind of situation, pre-op or post-op, is unsettling and I think you did an awesome job. He had absolutely no right to ask you about your kids. I hope you won't have to work with him in the near future, but if you do, your idea for a mediated discussion is great.
6/29/11 at 9:48am