I'm cross-posting between here and Sept as I'm sort of "on the cusp" with my edd.
Anyway, I didn't find out with my son, and will NOT be finding out with this one either. It's driving everyone around me absolutely batty and I love it!
For some reason it was "acceptable" not to find out with the first one, but now that I already have a boy, people seem almost incensed that I won't find out "so they will know what to buy me when shopping!"
Yeah, like I'm going to...