My family is definitely in the same boat. I encountered the "only check one box" when I registered my son at the public pre K. I checked both, and they told me that I need to only select one, or they would select it based off of his appearance. I am African American, my son is biracial (multiethnic) black and white. However, he "looks" white, very fair, straight blonde hair and grey/hazel eyes. I was frustrated, but in the end I ended up checking "black" because, in...