I'm 35 and my DH is 48. This is the first child for both of us. We were both previously married and we were both widowed in 2005. We met through an online message board for young widows and widowers. Kurt and Suzy had tried for several years to get pregnant and nothing ever happened, so Kurt had assumed the problem was on his end. Apparently not! So, we're extremely excited and a little scared and probably still a little in shock!