I have very thin, fine, unmanageable, stubborn hair. From the pics,kinda like yours. It was pretty long (almost waist length) and i finally got fed up with it. Now, i'm coming up on a year of super short hair. I LOVE it. It takes less than five min to style, literally hop out of the shower and throw.some product in it.
If you don't want to go super short, you could do one of those short in the back long in the front styles. Or, maybe a pixie cut with a new color?