Posts by mimim

Quote:Originally Posted by Emilie2  http://youtu.be/MEaxoSMUgXIThis is my break up song.  It's by Cranberries No Need to Argue I should stay away from this thread. I'm only about 90% over the break up that prompted me to...

Deleted because of stalker EX-boyfriend, I hope.

MoochieMama, it seems pretty clear that you are not comfortable with foregoing condoms with this guy at this time. If he won't respect that wish, then it would be a bad idea to have sex with him, for many reasons. Otherwise, I'm happy...

Quote:Originally Posted by Halfasianmomma To be honest, I was just looking to be with someone. I didn't want to be without a boyfriend. I must have spent years like this. And now that I am single, I am wondering how shallow it is of...

Emilie, I wouldn't get in the habit of watching dating site activity if I were you. Based on my experience, I've found that really doesn't mean much. For example, I've abandoned the site for days or weeks after a date, when I was only...

A win! I'm excited for you!

Quote:Originally Posted by worthy So far I have just followed my gut instinct:  I think if I would reach out for a non-date friend to show appreciation and interest, then it's not coming on too strong with a...

You date casually by NOT getting obsessed, NOT staying up all hours chatting, NOT letting it get in the way of your life, NOT spending every spare minute with someone. Chica, it seems to me that your posts are showing that you are...

Opinions on the unredacted dump that has just occurred? I'm for it. Better to have kept combing through it and releasing it slowly with respect to privacy, which is what Julian wanted, but since it got leaked by other sources, it's...

What she said. Especially since you expressed reservations about his respect for women.