My cucumber plants have little holes in the leaves, look like TINY snakes (the holes) ... or thin yarn strands. WHat could it be? How might I know? Could it be ants? Do Ants attack gardens? I do see a ton of ants...
I'm sorry, but I am one of those people that can' stand clutter (unless its my own.. LOL) and dh never misses anything I threw out. If, very rarely, he does say, hey, hon, where are my XYZ and I say, beat's me.... dunno.... he'll come back with something like, yeah, right, I bet you threw it away. (Which is probably true) He knows he hordes, and he knows it bugs me, so I do what I have to do. I am here all day and he's not, I can't live that like.
~To the OP~
My friend for the past 26 years
At my support group meetings I have heard more than once .... give yourself credit, and set small goals. I think you have to reward yourself when you've done something that you feel is important to improving your life. No, I don't mean go have a huge ice cream sundae... rewards can be anything. If you want to be soft spoken, but still make your point .... give yourself credit when you do it, write it down, keep a journal. ...
Well, I guess maybe I just have to relax and make sure I am the one that is taking note of how much he drinks. I never liked the heat and maybe I am just pushing my preferences on him... he really enjoyed his soccer camp last night, so... looks like were going back today.. LOL He slept like a log though, 12 hours.
So, what is your take .... water or gatorade?
I think its great that A gets to experience her mother's work like that. Obviously mom has found a way to be attached to her child and still hold down a full time job. What a great thing for A!!!
Obviously, if A is unattended at 3 and "wandering" around a farm, then there could be problems and dangers. But, I lived on a farm for years, and life on a farm is very different from life in other places... so.... I think I would relax, she's probably doing just fine!
All of the kids have to take a water bottle out on the field with them, and he finished his while he was out there, so he did drink while he was practicing, but he is getting a bigger water bottle next time and I think I am going to change them out every half hour so that he has a cold one when he needs it. I think they needed rest too, that really bugged me.