I'm with you, and I'm a second time mom. In some ways, I feel less prepared. We didn't do childbirth classes. And working and mothering takes so much time that I haven't been reading and preparing like I did with the first. (Just washed the baby's laundry last night.)
At the same time I have a bit more confidence that I can roll with it.
The first time around, the hormones after birth really helped quell a lot of nervousness about the baby.
Labor and caring...