Posts by Oh the Irony

I think I could have forgiven an affair if I had had a truly remorseful spouse who had been willing to cut ALL contact off with the affair partner and really focus on healing.   I didn't get that. It's a really tough decision...

Four can be a HARD age. It was for my youngest. And me~!   Are you very familiar with MDC? One thing you might find here is that a lot of moms wouldn't force their kids to wear a certain type of clothing. Really, what's so...

Quote: Originally Posted by StephandOwen  Indie and Murph (and anyone else having this issue).... if you were kicked out of the private forum and would like to re-gain your access please contact me (Indie- I just...

It sounds incredibly stressful.    Play therapists are therapists for kids that use play instead of traditional talk therapy. 5 year olds aren't able to/won't express everything they are feeling with words. They act it...

Oh, and your specific questions:   How I left? I found out in a rather dramatic way. He actually moved out that day because there was no way in hell we could have been in the same house. It wasn't even talked about. He slept...

Get yourself on over to www.survivinginfidelity.com for the best info. Read the articles in the healing library and Just Found Out and General for great info.    Reconciling the right way requires a ton of work by both...

I would wait for him to contact you again. Let him take the lead for the first couple of dates. I want to see that he is interested enough to put some thought and effort into me. You can tell a lot about a guy by his contact. Does he...

I have a friend that does Pure Romance. I don't know how much she makes, but it is significant in terms of monthly income. She stocks some products and orders others as needed. It is MLM but doesn't seem pushy about it--but maybe...

Martha27,   I would suggest taking the whole thing out. It really goes into the future a lot even though you have disclaimers. That's not what guys want to hear right from the start. They aren't thinking six months down the...

Quote: Originally Posted by ZoeyZoo   I got called "sensitive" and he said nothing like he would try to approach things differently next time, etc. For those who don't remember he came up a few pet names I didn't...