Posts by sntm

 My second son at 5 weeks old.

LOL, funny topic. I had an enormous crush on Sherlock Holmes. What can I say, I was drawn to cold distant intellectual men.

Too Bad to Leave, Too Good to Stay is a good book to read. I left for that reason. I sometimes wonder if it was the right choice, but for me, a loveless marriage was insufferable. I didn't want a partner or a companion, I wanted...

Do something to make yourself feel good. I bought a purse. It's my divorce handbag. I paid full price. It's worth it.

I went back to my maiden name. It was a hard decision, since I am a doc and all my degrees/publications were in my married name, but after weighing the pros and cons, decided that I'd rather change it now and be done forever. My...

Yeah. It sucked. I had to bribe my son to sleep in his bunk beds, especially after we moved and he freaked out over all the changes. But, my ex was in total mean mode during the settlement negotiations.

My ex actually put into the divorce settlement that we had to stop cosleeping. My son had not yet turned 5 at the time.

Argh. He had halfway mentioned doing something Thursday (another Tarantino flick) and since I would have needed a babysitter, I texted him last night to tell him I had a good time and ask if he still wanted to go. Haven't heard...

Quote: Originally Posted by Hollycrand But how do these guys know that you have money? Do you mention this to them as well? Maybe keep mum about it with potential dates. I'm a surgeon. They have been (most...

Question for y'all: I've been going out with people who have less money than I do. I have a lot of debt, yes, but still have a pretty decent disposable income (finally!). Part of me still thinks that they should pick up the check, at...