Thank you for all the replies. I think I will keep it simple and follow their lead - answer questions as they come up. I don't think I need to explain the infidelity to them now - because they are so young. But as they get older and if they ask - I agree with being honest and not keeping secrets. Interestingly enough all of their friends have parents that are together. Thanks again for all of the replies.
1/30/10 at 6:31pm