My son was a major bolting kid and still is at 4.5 yrs old. My daughter is just starting to bolt. I have never used a harness. If we are in a busy place I will ask him to hold my hand and I put my daughter in the sling or the stroller. I would prefer to use a stroller than use a harness. I don't agree with a harness but to each it's own.
8/18/07 at 9:38pm