We did one internationally and one through the foster care system. For the international process, there were educational groups operated by our agency that were most helpful, if not just to be with others in the same boat. With our second, we stayed busy with our first and the time went quite quickly. Good luck! It will happen and this time will be the fun part of the story you tell your child when s/he is ready to hear their life story.
5/29/12 at 7:09am