I am new...and I stumbled across this post by trying to look up Vietnamese culture forums on Google. Heidi....your story has touched me so much. I am in the same situation you are, except we are not married. Reading this brought tears to my eyes because I finally found someone who is going through EXACTLY what I am right now and what my future will be like. The only difference is, I haven't even met his parents yet. Heidi, I will be sending you a PM with my story....