I am not an unschooler and I am forum crashing. OP, you sound miserable. You do not have to keep on with a philosophy/practice that is not working for you or your kids, no matter what it is or how badly you wanted to believe in it. All that really matters in the end is whether or not it is working for your family. You can give yourself permission to consider different ways of doing things. It's okay. Being flexible is not any kind of failure.
5/18/12 at 8:36pm