I will be 35 when the baby is born. EDD 12/7/11. DH will be 38. This is our first. I had an early m/c in January. I am 12 weeks today. We're keeping the sex a surprise! I have been married 6 years, but felt strongly I wanted to wait to have a child until important other things were in place: what city to live in, to finish school, etc. Because of my miscarriage and because of my age, I do feel anxiety! I wish it wasn't so!