DSD just turned 8 about 2 weeks ago. We realized about a year ago that we had been babying her far too much, to her detriment, so it's something we've worked really hard on this year.
Get food for themselves. Use stove or toaster?
She uses the microwave mostly, but she does make her own breakfast in the mornings, and can microwave a hotdog or something if she wants it. She is well-versed in blender usage, as we love smoothies around here.