I love that name, "abeecharmer"--my dw-to-be told me I was one back in the early days of our fallin' in love. Fried Green Tomatoes!
Well, in terms of help, if you know of any lesbian mama writers, send them my way at candacew at mothering dot com.
I really want queer mamas "in the frame," I like that phrase.
I just got this snipey comment on my blog. "Congratulations on your success, what does that have to do with natural parenting?" I had shared a Publisher's...