My husband is like this. He doesn't enjoy anything, he just goes through the motions of life and wants to be left alone. I asked him once to name something he thinks is fun- anything. And he couldn't think of a single thing. Three days later he came to me and said he likes to play chess on the computer (but only if he wins). He thinks it's just the way he is so why bother trying to change, and he's not depressed. I think he has OCPD.
7/3/09 at 3:36am