My husband is Vietnamese and grew up over there. He had a very traditional Asian upbringing (authoritarian, pushed to study all the time, pushed to become a doctor/lawyer, etc). Well, it worked in a way, because he's smart, successful, and a lawyer (a job which, thank goodness, he actually likes). But in another way, it really backfired. My husband's relationship with his parents is strained at best, damaged at worst. The methods his parents used to parent...