Posts by crazyms

chica - I call that 'yo-yoing'. I do it too and it's awful. It really is like a high of sorts. When I really like a guy and connect well with them I get all wrapped up in it. It's exhilarating and fun when I'm talking to them or seeing...

I agree with taking some time for yourself and make sure you stay level headed about it but it sounds amazing. I've only had one that was ever that intense going into it and it was great fun.

Sorry anon that sucks. I had a "date" Wed night last week and well it looks like I might have read the signals wrong on that one too but I guess I'll figure that out tomorrow for sure. Not too happy about it but oh well.

chica - I think dating is fine. That's exactly what it is. Just spending time with people (even sex) while you look for what you need. You won't find it without getting out there. I understand seeing someone even if you feel like they...

Hmm I guess I'd hear his suggestions but that's it. You get to decide the name. My baby's father was excited when I first told him and I was trying to keep him involved in knowing when doc appts where and all that. He lapsed out on me...

Oh and mine did the whole getting involved in my life thing too. He started coming out where I work all the time (I bartend and when we were married he hardly ever wanted to step foot in the place... not his scene) and going out with...

Oh fun... I originally filed for divorce 2 years ago and although mine agreed to everything and signed he wouldn't give me the paperwork I needed to finalize it. I let him choose the child support and visitation and property agreement...

Yes the only thing the courts will do is grant him visitation. I agree with the other posters that the 'taking the child' is most likely just a threat to get you to not file for support and just remember that courts don't usually take...

Moochie... I would drop that one quick. It's ridiculous but some men will tell you what they think you want to hear just to get what they want and then the truth comes out. He's a pos. Just forget him. I'd try #2 if I were you or just...

Hey everybody! I'm back lol. Wow! It looks like a whole new group except for butterfly! Sorry but things have been absolutely crazy here for some time and I didn't feel like I should be posting since I made a catastrophic mistake and...