Quote: Originally Posted by babygirlie I think you are blowing it out of proportion. You come from completely different cultures and you both need to respect that. You cannot expect your elder to come in and tell them how it's going to be or else. That's just not how it works in other countries. My house, my rules isn't African at all. It is true a village is a family. I haven't been to Nigeria but I have lived in African villages before. If someone...