If I don't 'flow', I don't mark a new cycle. Did your temp come back down with the spotting?I also think its your life. If you want to TTC, you should. I was talking to a woman having trouble with the nurses at her fertility clinic telling her not to try so hard, funny that if women weren't trying so hard that her job wouldn't even exist. You do what you think is good for you and your family, not what anyone else thinks you should do.