Thanks for all the input! I think we're just going to do what most have suggested, and on his actual birthday have a cupcake and one present and maybe he and I will go somewhere special. Then the next weekend when Papa is back we'll celebrate with the other relatives and have that be the more official party. I think he's old enough to understand that's why we're celebrating it twice, and not necessarily remember and expect that every year.
3/10/14 at 10:21am