We have five children and there's no way that I would try to coordinate sports teams. Like you said, having multiple kids on different teams, at different places... it's too much.
"Do I have to let the public school district or the ESD know he is doing a private school if I do that?"
Yes, you have to let the ESD know.
We're in Oregon too, and I want to point out that the standardized...
With many medications, it is better to breastfeed and take the medication than to formula feed. The benefits of breastfeeding (and the risks of formula!) outweigh the risks of medication.
I would not be comfortable birthing a breech baby unassisted. While there are plenty of successful homebirth breech birth stories, I feel like many of the homebirth deaths that make the news were breech babies.
Find yourself a midwife! A midwife will take more time with you at appointments, answer your questions and provide more education. Also, consider the possibility of out of hospital birth. Birth centers and home births are good...