What to say? I know your pain. I was married for 12 years to a handsome, smooth-talking guy. My divorce was final in February, the 14th. (There are funny people at the court house!)
When we met I was successful in my chosen field, winning awards for my work. I had savings. Now, I am in deep debt with two kids & panicked trying to figure things out.
So, I hear you on the being depleted of your finances & every other resource. Some men are not...