((hugs)) Its always so hard in the moment to focus on what to do. You did a great job.
I personally always have a selection of fruit,snacks etc so that if anyone does not want the meal they can have an alternative. I never make seperate meals for everyone but our house is now sugar and junk food free so the only alternatives are healthy.
I actually had a phone consultation with Naomi last week and she was fantastic!! hehe now I have to try and put it all into action.