I completely agree with you that the shots are more dangerous than the diease itself. That is exactly how I feel. I just want to encourage you to follow your mommy instinct which tells you to not vax for now, do a ton more research, get educated, than have a heart to heart with your partner.
Oh, and everything Kathy said, ditto. She's very smart; I doubt I've ever disagreed with ANY of her responses! Lol