I basically do what Quinalla does. It doesn't work perfectly, but it's as close as we're gonna get around here. For what it's worth, it does ease up once the baby gets past the worst of the evening fussies. Took awhile to tweak it to arrive at what we've got. The key for me is to feed Ds2 first, pass him to daddy, then deal with ds1. That way, if I do hear ds2, I'll know it's not hunger.