Is this how the story ended? We were in a very similar situation in PA. The cop was extremely rude and intimidating. Case worker claimed to have gone on to get a restraining order from a juvenile court judge to force us into cooperation. We talked to a lawyer, understood that this is a real danger, and settled to let the worker in. There didn't seem to be any other reasonable path to take at the time.
11/28/10 at 2:08pm