Posts by grisandole

Good luck, update when you can!!!   For me, I don't like kids in my bedroom anymore. My younger son is 10 and if he is sick or if for some reason I want to watch a movie with him in there instead of the family room, sure, but...

Those are good questions. I think I would rather end up single without another bio child than married to a man who is too afraid to try. Does that make sense?  

Your plan sounds great! Let us know how it goes.  

Exactly. That's why I don't buy that it's the "tiny baby" thing, it obviously isn't.

Thanks! I have done foster care and my ex and I adopted a then-16yo from "the system". I would be fine doing that again with dh after we had our own bio kid. If dh and I were to break up, I don't know that I would pursue having a...

I'll start with the short version. I love dh. We have been together for 4.5 years, living together for 2.5, married since last October. He has a teen son, I have a 20yo ds1 and 10yo ds2. Ds1 is military and not living at home. ds2 is...

I want to know, too. I don't want one right now, but do still want one. I'm almost 38, and if I were ten years younger I wouldn't be stressed about it, but since I'm not, I am. DH does not want one. I have two sons, 10 and 20, and he...

Everyone is giving great advice, so I'll just say "ditto"! :) One thing that may help is not to think of their dad as uninterested, rather, he just has a different parenting style. You say that you can't understand why someone wouldn't...

Thank you for reminding me about Floradix!! I took it years ago and it really helped, will buy some asap :)  

Just chiming in because I am feeling at a loss, too. OP, I am just like you in that I finally got a lot of sleep and just feel more tired, I want to cry. I have had problems sleeping for the past two years or so, and I thought it was...