Thanks mamas for the advice, i feel much better now. We have had a couple of weekends where my dsd has stayed with her mom ( holiday schedule, etc.) And we are getting our footing for tbe next time she comes. I really want to be able to offer stability and boundaries as well as just be there for her as a friend. Its a fine line to walk as all you stepmamas out there know! Thanks for the encouragement!!
1/8/14 at 9:20pm