Posts by gitanamama

Quote: Originally Posted by mvalenti    It's almost like I took something away that he depended on and now he needs to be by my side or he is going to throw a fit.     I think you put it really...

Wow--what a powerful thread! It helps me tremendously to read through these pages (I haven't made it through all 88 yet!) and realize that I'm not alone in feeling rage towards my child, and that it doesn't make me a bad mother. It's...

I can definitely relate. Our issue is more with the length of my son's hair (he's 2 and we haven't cut it) although he has his fair share of "girl" colored clothing (and a pair of awesome pink sandals!) I constantly get asked if he's...

Quote: Originally Posted by ElsieLC    It helps to visit other families' homes that look like mine! But if you are running a school from your house, you probably don't have many opportunities to do that,...

I can totally relate GuavaGirl. My son just turned two and I've never left him with anyone other than my mom since he was born. But, like you said, I'm feeling the need for more balance in my life, and I'm having a hard time getting...

My heart goes out to you and I'm so, so sorry for your loss. Sending love, strength, and healing your way.

Quote: Originally Posted by Mama Florentyne   Then look around at your own home, bursting with the joy, vibrancy and life of small children, and revel in the "lived-in look!"   That's what I've been...

Beautifully written lovetoski. We're all on our own parenting journey and learning as we go---about ourselves, our little ones, and the path of motherhood. Here's hoping you have a wonderful summer full of growth (of all kinds!)

I agree with Alphaghetti--I think 1 is a perfect time for a sand/water table. My son was really into ours at around that age--and now, at 2, he's pretty much over it and into larger spaces, like the kiddie pool and sandbox. I wouldn't...

Quote: Originally Posted by CI Mama    re: bolded...I am totally the same way (and I don't have OCD...at least I think I don't!). Dirty dishes piled everywhere drive me crazy, and I can't start a meal until...