Posts by Lazurii

Mom31, due to complications in the c-section of her son she has had a complete hysterectomy.

If it's ethical to donate my genetic material and it's ethical to offer my body as an incubator, why is it not okay to offer the two together?

Quote:Originally Posted by marsupial-mom IMoreover, it's likely that by helping them pay for an adoption you'd also be helping a child who really needs it. I wanted to reply to this. Do you advocate to everyone that they need to...

Hypothetical situations:   What if I donate my eggs to my friend, they fertilize them with his semen, and a different woman carries the baby to term.  Does that mean it's still my baby?  It was my...

Okay, whoa, everyone cool down.  I'm asking for advice, and I've gotten wonderful feedback.  But please don't let this degenerate into a , "OMG, you're not thinking enough/clearly/how I would/in a Western way, so you must be...

Quote: Originally Posted by pumpkingirl71  Sorry to keep coming back to this, but adoption from the state if free.  The fact that your friend says it is too expenive is really concerning to me.. Hmm, maybe...

ckthom, I have discussed this with The Hubby and it is supportive of possibly offering this opportunity to our friends.   If we were to go through with this there would obviously be much discussion between the four of...

Thank you, everyone, you've given me a lot to think about.

McGucks, thank you for the thoughtful reply.  We do have insurance and it's very good.   That was wonderful advice about seeing a counselor and lawyer.   I do think The Hubby and I would be attached to the child,...

I have a very dear and sweet friend that has one child but always wanted more.  She had a horrific birth experience that eventually led to the removal of her uterus and ovaries.  She's younger than me and I haven't seen 30...