My husband and I would love to have a Beco Butterfly. I'm really paranoid about baby having flat head from sleeping on their back too much and since DH and I have some carpal tunnel we can't hold our baby too long. So he babywear our DS since DS was a few days old with traditional Mien baby carrier similar to a Mei Tai. So my ideas to encourage more men to babywear is tell them that they help to prevent flat head in their baby, relieve your arms if you have carpal tunnel...