Posts by kristah1000

Just wanted to say that I get where Escaping is coming from...she's just venting! I know people who are parents and do things that I think are completely ridiculous, and I vent about them to my DH too. It doesn't mean I am not nice to...

Well we had a positive day there, but we really just barely scratched the surface. We did manage to get the bathroom sparkling . And the kitchen is clean enough for now. It took me 2 hours to get the dishes done and the counters clean,...

We did CIO with our older DD....honestly before I knew any better and because it was what literally everyone in my life told me to do. It did work, for a time, but then like a PP said she would have rough nights, maybe a rough stretch...

Apparently he doesn't want anyone going through and purging any of his things. She doesn't want to tell him that if he would just help her out it wouldn't be this bad, because she didn't want to start an argument...it sounds like he...

We are headed there this weekend to do some cleaning. She agrees that she needs the help, and was very grateful that we reached out to her. However. She seems to think we are going there to help her declutter, which needs to be done. ...

So I contacted 2 of her other friends, one of whom visited her yesterday and described the house in the same state, so my friend didn't clean up for her either. Both are very concerned. We are going to contact her mom today and try to...

Just wanted to say that I agree completely that toys everywhere aren't a huge deal. It was more that they're everywhere, mixed in with cat litter and probably mouse droppings because they have never been picked up to clean the floors...

I talked to her again last night, and the subject of cleaning was brought up. I casually mentioned that having 2 young kids I find it hard to keep my house clean, and actually cleaned while I talked to her (I suggested that she do the...

Thanks for the quick replies I have known her for a while, we worked together a few years ago and have kept in contact, mostly via phone because we don't live in the same city. Depression I think might be an issue. I know she had PPD...

I wasn't sure where to put this, so feel free to move if its in the wrong place I visited a friend a few weeks ago, and can't stop thinking about the state of her home...and can't figure out what to do or how to help her. She has 2...