I know this may sound like a dumb question but being in a gay relationship and never having had a male partner and therefore still "technically" being a virgin, I wonder if giving birth would be more difficult and painful? My partner and I have been talking about conceiving via AI for quite some time, but the fact that i've never had anything much "up there" makes me think how on earth would a child be able to get through ?? Has any of you had a child but never actually...