No, your husband can call the school and find out when school photos are and when sports his son is interested in start. Are you sure she's ruining them? He's a kid, he may very well be ruining them himself.
OP... if you were in the Army you'd know that there are many people in the Military with AI's or upon getting find out they have AI's. Use your deductive reasoning and figure it out. While I'm pro vaccine I'm not incapable of putting it all together and seeing that forcing vaccines on EVERYONE in a short period of time and forcing certain Vaccines on those deploying has caused quite a bit of harm.