i first just wanted to mention that some are saying that high needs is a food related issue. They are completely unrelated! High needs is an inborn high maintnance personality. food related issues would be categorized under terms like "food intollerance".   i would say that in some cases the term is innapropriately used. some parents feel that if their child is going through a stage that they are now high needs/spirited. but a personality is not something you...