Originally Posted by confustication
At any rate, fight if you can, and if you can't, walk away and don't wish for things to be different. yes, it stinks starting over and it isn'tfair, but wishing for things to be different is energy that is better put towards moving forward.
This is sage advice. It is not worth it to dwell on the "things". Focus on finding a comfy, cozy, safe place for you and your little ones, a place where...