Fairly new to forums like this but I came across it as I searched in desperation for answers and advice. I live with a man whose 12 year old son as aspergers and ADHD and he no longer comes to our house as he is violent and aggressive. When I first met my boyfriend nearly three years ago he had been separated for over 18 months and things went well with both his sons and my three children. It has since become so hard having his son around as we all walk on egg shells in...