Many thanks for the discussion. I finally miscarried naturally in my home tonight. It was a very spiritual experience for me and emotionally I feel a lot of relief. I just hope I did not retain any...
I'm so sorry. I got the exact same news myself yesterday. No heartbeat and like you my body hasn't realized the loss yet. The baby stopped growing at 8 weeks. My d&c isnt until next week.
May those of us with losses take gentle care...
My mother had a missed miscarriage. There was never any bleeding or sign that anything was wrong until she went for her second trimester scan and they discovered what had happened. Very sad. Generally though this type of mc is rare.