Hi Ladies,   I am new here. I am not pregnant as of yet but plan on soon or in the coming months. I have two boys - D1 will be 3 in a months and DS2 is 13 months old. My first was a unnessisary csection and second was a very chaotic vbac. My birth stories are here: http://holdingmybabyfirst.wordpress.com/   I want my third to be very much different than the first two and much gentler on my baby and I. I am planning on a UC. In the last two months I have read:...